Then, now, and always

I met Heather when I was 8 years old. I had just started at a new school after leaving my previous elementary school due to ongoing bullying by a kid in Grade 6. By the end of Grade 2, I had morphed into a scared, insecure kid despite having had friends in my grade, and having previously loved going to school. All of this forcing a decision to start somewhere new. One of many examples in my life of a miracle disguised as a problem…. Heather was my first friend at St. Bernard. She was the first to come over and introduce herself, chatting excitedly, and making me feel so at ease. First to invite me to play with all of her friends at recess. First to pick me as a partner for a class assignment, and first to have me over to her house after school. With Heather, I immediately felt seen and important. Something, many who have had the privilege of knowing her could attest to- Friends, family, patients, and really anyone lucky enough to enter her orbit. Heather loved me back together a million times over in our 42 years of friendship. Heather, you are the most amazing example of what it means to be a friend. Thank you for being mine. May you feel all of my love and appreciation as you celebrate this very special birthday. Love you then, now, and always xo Shannon